Kind people who don't spend a lot of time with me have recently started to say "Wow! Your wedding is just a few weeks away and you seem totally calm."
Those people don't spend time with me when I'm having wedding breakdowns.
People like Travis, my sister, my mother, and my old roommates know that I am not actually totally calm.
In fact, if my family actually managed to come, the reception hall was figured out, the hem of my dress wasn't lopsided, and we had actually ordered and tasted pies, I would still probably be freaking out.
Interestingly enough, many of my problem lately have been derivied from one central problem, but tonight, oh tonight! all of my problems are new and fresh.
I'm trying to not become a monster, but it's harder than it seems.
Also, note to my parents and grandmothers: stop accusing me of not caring about anything. As it so happens, I have had to learn not to care about anything wedding related, so that when it inevitably falls through, I do not need to be upset. I'm sorry I don't have a decisive view on table cloth colors.
4 comments:
BOOOOOOOM
You get married in 18 days 1 hour 13 minutes and 23 seconds.
Don't get too stress lady, I love you!
xoxo,
Lisa
you could always just run away - elope, that way all the problems would go away and it would be time for fun. Oh but then you wouldn't get any presents. I'm chuckeling and I can't spell, but it will all be worth it in the end. (it is spelled chuckling) that's better, smile!!!!
I give you permission to cry on my shoulder whenever you want. metaphorically specking.
I love the bridezilla picture it is awesome. Also no one would accuse you of not caring if you would stop saying "fine, whatever, I don't care". This used to work on Jack "Stop, breath, and think" try that it helps.
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